Archive for September, 2008

Feedback for volunteer managers

When I started this blog, I hoped that it might help volunteer coordinators understand what it’s like to be a volunteer. I hoped that it might give them an idea of what volunteers like, what keeps them happy, and what annoys volunteers.

If you’ve read the blog from the beginning you know one of my biggest hurdles as a volunteer was getting in the door. It took me almost three weeks to get a full volunteer schedule going where I volunteer each day of the week. Now, that I’ve volunteered for a few months I have even more feedback about  volunteers’ experiences.

Here are some “rules” for volunteer managers based on my experience thus far:

1) Always send out a timely thank you after an event, and don’t accompany the thank you with advertisements. Any self respecting Southern girl knows the importance of a thank you. People who are giving their time and energy to you and your organization deserve a proper and prompt thank you. You don’t have to send out a handwritten note (but that is nice); an email is completely appropriate and can actually contain links to a calendar of other volunteer opportunities. Some thank you emails include surveys, which I find annoying, but I understand as a necessary evil to improve volunteers’ experience.

Most of the folks I’ve volunteered for have been wonderful about sending timely thank you emails. However, not every group has been so thoughtful. The folks that put on Slow Food Nation over Labor Day Weekend  didn’t send me a thank you email until September 26th, almost a month after the event. (Don’t confuse the event organizers with the totally awesome architecture firm that made the pickle pavilion; they emailed after each volunteer night).  Of course, the email was a mass email to all of the volunteers which included a survey. However the most outrageous thing was getting an email a few hours later from the event management company advertising their services. You should never, ever, ever give volunteer emails to a third party who are going to send advertisements for services to them. Totally inappropriate.

2) If it is going to be a while before you can bring a volunteer on board, let them know why there is a delay and don’t be upset if they commit themselves elsewhere in the meantime. I’m a  sad that I haven’t been able to volunteer with the California Academy of Sciences yet. I sent an application to them in mid-August, and they called two weeks ago to schedule my volunteer interview in November. I am frustrated that it is taking this long, but at least they have been straight forward with me about the delay. The Academy renovated its building and just celebrating it’s re-opening last week. When I applied in August, I had hoped that I could volunteer as they worked toward the opening, but I guess they didn’t need volunteers for that. Now, I’m waiting until November for an interview because the volunteer coordinator is on vacation for the month of October. Sadly, because of the delay, I’ve committed myself elsewhere and I will not have much time in my schedule to set aside for the Academy.

3) Ask volunteers the way they prefer to be contacted, especially about their schedule. I’ve also been frustrated with my inability to get in the door at KQED. I responded the same day to email asking for volunteers for a TV pledge drive at KQED in mid-August. Obviously, I don’t expect I response the same day about my schedule, but I think I’d get an email within the week letting me know if and when I’d been scheduled to volunteer.  Instead, I got a mailed letter a few weeks later, letting me know that they didn’t need me to volunteer for the pledge drive. In the meantime I had the all of pledge dates marked off in my calendar, and I was refusing other opportunities because of it. Because I don’t go through my mail that often, I could have missed the letter altogether. An email would be much quicker, and I think more appropriate since all of the other communications were emails. I think all volunteer organizations should at least ask volunteers about the best way(s) to reach them. They should also find out if there is a way they don’t want to be contacted.

4) Give volunteers feedback in person about how their work has helped. I know lots of volunteer organizations send out newsletters or emails informing volunteers how their work has helped.  I rarely read those emails and newsletters because they seem so impersonal.  But that doesn’t mean that I don’t like to know the outcomes of my work. I have been really heartened to find out how my work has contributed when volunteer coordinators let me know in person the impact of my efforts. At Planned Parenthood’s No on Prop 4 phonebanks, the volunteer coordinator always lets the volunteers know how many No voters they’ve reached as a team. Today, my supervisor at the NSRC took me by another staff person’s office, so I could hear first hand how the facts I gathered on senior sexuality helped her write an article, and that they will be used in a board meeting.

5) Learn repeat volunteers’ names* and be personable. There are a lot of tutors and a lot of students at 826 Valencia each afternoon. Amid the chaos, the Thursday afternoon coordinator and the program coordinator quickly learned my name. They both go out of their way to speak to me (and every other tutor) each Thursday and often remember details of our conversation from the week before. I can’t stress enough the importance of being personable with your volunteers. I think volunteer programs, especially those that rely on repeat volunteers, work best if they foster a sense of community based on interpersonal relationships. Feeling like you are part of community makes working as a volunteer more enjoyable and it makes you feel more accountable to the group.

* You may notice that I don’t use names of fellow volunteers or volunteer coordinators in this blog. It’s not because I don’t know them. I omit names to maintain the privacy of folks I work with who don’t ask to be on the blog.

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Words to Inspire Action

Reviewing and tagging content on the NSRC website has been a lot more fun that it might sound. The articles posted on the NSRC website (usually via American Sexuality Magazine) cover a wide range of sexuality related topics and are written by some of the nation’s premiere sexuality researchers, advocates, and scholars. I haven’t even made it through half of the list (which grew from about 530 to 620 overnight as another team member added even newer content), but I’ve read articles on diverse topics.

I definitely encourage anyone to check out the website. Even if you don’t work in a sexuality related field, I bet you’d be surprised to find out how sexuality scholarship touches your professional and personal lives.

I’m really excited about their new web design that will make finding articles much easier, but in the meantime I’ve provided links to some of my favorite posts that illustrate how sexuality and equality are intimately related. A few of the articles chronicle the efforts of sexuality advocacy groups, others encourage you to think about justice and equality with a broader perspective,  while others suggest ways you can contribute to sexual equality.  They will all encourage you to think about systems of power and inequality, and hopefully they will encourage you act!

Articles to check out:

eActivism Sex workers utilize technology to fight for their rights

Fight for your right to marry: Setbacks in the struggle for marriage equality haven’t stopped Equality California

Making Badlands Good: Still confronting racism in the Castro

Op-Ed: A New Right, Old Wrongs

On Asian American Sexual Politics: Porn director professor defends his work

The Right to Pleasure: Russell Shuttleworth, examines sexual facilitation

The Right to Work: For some, the unemployment-underemployment rate surges as high as 65 percent

Sexual Assault Is Everybody’s Responsibility

Sexual Prejudice: The erasure of bisexuals in academia and the media

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Now I feel like a volunteer

After spending each Monday and Tuesday for the past few weeks researching facts for a Senior Sexual Bill of Rights, I started to feel like I wasn’t actually volunteering at the NSRC. The subtle difference between intern and volunteer became abundantly clear. While both positions came without a paycheck, the quality and kinds of work as an intern felt different from volunteer work.

I worked longer hours at the NSRC, and while I was there I worked at a computer doing research for communications projects – like the Senior Sexual Bill of Rights. I didn’t talk to any seniors, but I read academic and popular press articles that addressed senior sexuality. When I volunteered at other organization, I either worked directly clients or I did manual labor.

Today, however, I got my first taste of how interning can be a lot like volunteering. I started a new project of cataloging all content on the NSRC website. They are redesigning the website, and in order to merge previous content into the new design, I’m skimming roughly 500 articles and tagging them according to topic area. My supervisor joked that this would be the volunteer portion of my internship; she was right.

However, like most volunteer opportunities, it was still rewarding work. I’m a sexuality student, and spending five hours reading sexual articles is not really a chore for me. The contributors have submitted a wide range of articles from pop culture critiques to philosophies of erotics.

I only made it through 200 articles today, so I’ll be back on this project tomorrow (and maybe next week too). Tomorrow look for a post with my favorite articles!

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Have a lovely afternoon…

I’m still phonebanking for the No on Prop 4 campaign every Sunday afternoon. If you happen to call me anytime within the few hours after phonebanking, you’ll probably hear me repeat a few phrases that I say on every phone call during the phone bank.I might just answer the phone as Liz, a volunteer for Planned Parenthood. And before hanging up I will end the call by thanking you for your time and wishing you a lovely afternoon.

While I’m not on the phone, I’d like to extend those thanks and well wishes to all readers of blog, but especially to the other volunteers that take time out of their lives to work on something they believe in.

I want to send an extra special THANK YOU to the community outreach coordinator at Planned Parenthood Golden Gate who runs all of the phone banks and volunteer recruitment session. She is currently doing the job of three people because colleagues are out on maternity leave. It’s no small feat to play a major role in running the No on Prop 4 Campaign while doing your regular job and filling in for two others. I hope that she has finally left the office and has a chance to enjoy this lovely afternoon!

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Training at Project Open Hand

Yesterday morning, I attended a training a Project Open Hand. During the training, I learned more about this amazing non-profit that provides groceries or meals for critically ill people in San Francisco. Most of their clients have AIDS, although, they recently got a grant from the Avon Foundation to provide meals to women being treated for breast cancers.

I’ll be volunteering with Project Open Hand two mornings a week. On Thursday mornings, I’ll work in the grocery center. Thursday morning is the time they service women with Breast Cancer, so I know this will be a touching experience.

On Friday mornings, I’ll be working in the kitchen prepping vegetables for lunches and dinners. Working in the kitchen means that I won’t be working directly with clients, but it should make me a better cook while helping prepare some of the 2600 meals Project Open Hand makes each day.

Look out for posts on my experiences at Project Open Hand!

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Why I’m going back to Starbucks

I don’t drink coffee that much, but try to buy coffee from local coffee shops when I do have a hankering for the bitter bite of an espresso. Local coffee shops usually have better decor, often better coffee, and being the San Francisco liberal that I am, I’ve always appreciated their campy, anti-corporate stance.

However after spending the last two Wednesday afternoons on merchant walks with the No on Prop 4 campaign, I was sad to find out that despite coffee shops “local business for local people” ideology they will not even entertain the possibility of putting a political sign in their windows. I guess they’ll take money from event promoters to put up a sign about a new album or an upcoming concert, but no way will they post anything anything political. Of course, they are happy to promote their political stance that they aren’t a big cooperation like Starbucks.  Where did the radical politics go when I come to the door with a sign?

Id like grande non-fat latte with a little local politics instead of whip cream

I'd like grande non-fat latte with a little local politics instead of whip cream

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Thursday is three days before Sunday

If there is one thing that tutoring on Thursday taught me, it reminded me that I have no idea why the days of the week are in the order they are in.  However, knowing that Sunday is three days after Thursday – Thursday being the day I tutor at 826 Valencia and Sunday being the day I’m writing this- means that I’ve really been lazy about posting on my volunteer experiences. Here’s a quick story from Thursday, three days ago.

On Thursday, I worked with two first graders on their homework packet. The packet included questions about the days of the week and lots of measured lines for practicing writing. I’ve really mastered the art of helping  kids write correctly. I’m also a champ  when it comes to helping them come up with words that start with a particular letter or making a sentence with a particular word. However, I have absolutely know idea how to explain which day is before Wednesday. They could both sing the order of the days of the week, but when faced with the question what day is before Wednesday they would blurt out any random day of the week. Sadly, I had know idea how to give them clues what day it might be. Finally I had them write out the days of the week in order on a sheet of paper. Then we would go through each question, and I would have them point to the write answer. Sometimes they would still get the answer wrong, which made wonder if I needed to explain the words ‘before’ and ‘after.’ After a few questions with this methods, they seemed to have mastered concept. I hope this method is not cheating. Obviously I want them to learn, but it isn’t one of the prerequisites for learning knowing why something is they  way it is? If so, I guess I never properly learned the days of the week.  Do any parents or teachers out there have advice on how to explain this in a better way?

The first grade homework packet was actually quite demanding. Neither girl finished with much time to spare, which was a shame because if they had we could have participated in a project helping to name and design a product for the Pirate store. I wonder what the girls would have designed. Something for mermaids? Or something for a pirate’s parrot? Learning to design a product seems more marketable than knowing your days of the week….

Maybe I could use characters named after the days of the week to help tutor....

Maybe I could use characters named after the days of the week to help tutor....

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You know you’ve had a great night…

…when you get in a cab to go home with a pottery barn table, a hp printer, a bottle of wine, a leash, gay porn and a blind fold (along with other Good Vibrations goodies that I’ll omit for the sake of any kids reading this).

I’m not sure what I’m going to do with all that stuff, but I know I had a good time winning it at a wedding themed Bingo Night with the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence. Bingo cost $42 a person for VIP seats and proceeds benefit Marriage Equality and the No on Prop 8.

The night moved from touching (during a a tribute to Del Martin and Phyllis Lyons) to funny (with a ‘reception’ intermission with wedding cake and champagne), but it always remained fabulously flamboyant as the Sisters called out Bingo numbers and punished bad behavior (like text messaging or talking on a cell phone) by giving offenders Sister makeovers or dobbing their chests with Bingo dobbers. The only all gay American Legion Post sold us drinks and raised money to fight the discriminatory practice of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell.

All around good times, and a fine example of a fundraiser that is entertaining, low cost, and totally memorable. The host Bingo regularly. Check out their Bingo site – http://sistersbingo.com/

The Sisters

The Sisters

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Door to door

I finally think I found my calling for the No on Prop 4 campaign yesterday. I spent the afternoon with a PPGG intern doing a merchant walk, and I really enjoyed the opportunity to talk to business owners about the proposition and placing signs in business windows for the campaign.

We divided our time in two neighborhoods The Richmond and The Mission. I was much more successful in The Richmond, but I think that was because the signs were HUGE and businesses in The Richmond had much larger store fronts and window displays. Most of my signs went in women-friendly businesses like hair salons and nail salons, but bookstores and dry cleaners were also really amenable too.

I was really surprised which businesses didn’t take a sign. I was turned down by a tattoo parlor, a home brew supply store, and a skate shop. The other volunteer I was working with was turned down by a head shop. The folks that worked in the tattoo parlor, home brew supply store, and skate shop all talked a really progressive game to me before turning me down. One owner railed on Sarah Palin for about 15 minutes before telling me no to the sign.

I guess I’m starting to met some of the people who complain about the status quo without actually doing anything. Hopefully, they’ll at least get out and vote.

Despite the set backs in a few places, I do feel like we made a lot of progress. The best moment was when I was in a dry cleaners shop and the owner told me that he didn’t put up signs. He was an older Asian man, and I must admit that I didn’t think he would be a supporter of No on Prop 4.  I asked him if I could tell him about the proposition anyway. Once I told him about the proposition, he actually asked for a sign to put in his window. That was pretty amazing. I’m totally in awe of the business owners that did let me put signs up.

I’m looking forward to next Wendesday when I can hit up a few more neighborhoods!

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Merchant walk

It’s Wednesday , and I’m back with PPGG and the No on Prop 4 campaign. Today I’m doing a merchant walk. So far local merchants have been great and I have fun good stories to write up tonight!

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